Queer Elopement Photographer

Guiding elopements that are wildly fun & unmistakably you

Oregon Based.
Serving the Pacific Northwest
& Worldwide

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Running away together never went out of style.

Is there anything more romantic?

Your wedding should feel like escaping into a dream. Full of love, laughter, and a constant sense of wonder. 

The photos just prove it was real.

You want a wedding day that’s just like your love—carefree, playful, intimate. You want memories of that special day to be as warm as a hug from your favorite person.

But somewhere along the way, weddings got bigger and more performative. The softer displays of passion became harder to find, especially for queer couples, who were never really centered in those narratives to begin with. 
Look, I totally get it:
Those big, traditional wedding check lists made you pause and think…

Do I have to invite all those people?

Can I truly say what I want to say to my partner in front of family?

Will I be able to find queer-friendly vendors for all my needs?

Am I going to be able to stop and enjoy even a second of the day, or will it be a blur like everyone says?

ELOPING IS YOUR CALL TO ADVENTURE

An adventure elopement takes the stress out of planning and lets you devote your energies back where they should be—crafting a day that’s actually yours to live, not an emotional labor marathon.

Take your time with each other, say all the little things you really want to say, and soak up every golden moment with your person. This is the first day of this new chapter in your lives together, so chase that adventure and make memories to give you warm fuzzies that last way beyond “I do.”

No pressure, no expectations.
Just the open road, the love of your life, and a day that feels all yours.

Some couples pick a venue.
Cool couples pick a map.

Most weddings happen in one place. But yours has a few stops along the way.
If a “one-and-done” elopement feels too limiting, let’s build a day with room to wander.
With years of living on the road under my belt, I will help you plan a celebration that fits YOUR story, full of places that inspire you and activities that feel personal.
I am up for any adventure, no matter where it takes us!
3 day weekend along the Oregon coast?
Let’s go.
2 days exploring the gorgeous red rocks of the southwest?
I’m SO there.
A Twilight- inspired road trip up the Olympic Peninsula?
Where the hell have you been, loca?!
Whatever your style, wherever your heart’s compass takes us, I want to help you make your wildest wedding dreams come true.

Your love can’t possibly be contained to just a single location

& You’ve just found your ultimate road trip bestie!

Meet your Elopement Photographer

Your New Ride-Or-Die

Hiya, I’m Milo! I’m a queer and trans photographer, elopement expert, road trip wizard, and your personal hype crew! I’ve spent years living on the road in my self-made camper van, chasing stunning sights and documenting queer love in the wildest places. Now I want to share what I’ve learned with you!

What makes Folksy Elopements different? 

I’ll handle the details—you get to be fully present!

No need for you to worry about logistics, locations, or how the day will flow… that’s my job! I’m the one who takes care of knowing what permits we need, timelines, weather calls, and finding the best spots for all your photos. 
When you’re not stressing over details, you get to relax and actually experience the moment as it unfolds. Steal kisses during downtime! Make each other laugh with that dumb inside joke! On your special day, your only job should be loving each other. That’s when the real magic happens.

You don’t have to educate your photographer. 

On their wedding day, so many queer couples end up saddled with the emotional labor of correcting pronouns, explaining gender dynamics, or otherwise navigating uncomfortable assumptions from their vendors.

Not here.

As a queer and trans person myself, my focus is making you feel seen. I understand the nuances of identity, safety, and belonging. That means you get to show up fully as yourselves without having to second guess. Authenticity is what we strive for!

You get Photos that act like a time machine to your best day ever.

My background in documentary film means I’m not just taking pictures, I’m telling your love story. I’m always looking out to capture the intimate in-betweens, the forehead kisses, the giggles. The flashpan moments of love, brilliant and warm, that would have gotten swept away during a traditional ceremony become the centerpieces of your story. 
Your gallery will never feel like a series of forced poses from an awkward Macy’s catalogue; it will unfold like stills from your favorite indie romance. Because elopement shouldn’t just be about getting married, it should feel like a movie about the best day of your life together.

How Does This Work?

1.

Reach Out & Let’s Map Out Your Dream Together

Every great adventure starts with a single step. For you, it’s filling out my handy contact form and sharing all your amazing ideas (even if it’s currently just vibes on a Pinterest board). Then we’ll hop on a no-pressure call, get to know each other a little better, and start really shaping the clay of your dream elopement! Whether you have a full itinerary in mind or just know you want something epic, I’ll help bring that dream into focus.

2.

We co-Create Your Ultimate Elopement Experience

Think of me as your personal cartographer, drafting the road map for your wildly unique wedding day. Nothing about your relationship is cookie-cutter, so why should this be any different? From handpicked locations to inside scoops on the best queer-friendly vendors, I will curate every little detail to make your elopement the most unforgettable adventure of a lifetime and give you an experience that feels 100% authentically yours.

3.

You have the
Adventure of a Lifetime

When the day arrives, it’s all sweet and no stress. If you lost any sleep the night before, it’s only because you were too excited for what’s coming to close your eyes. The only expectations you have to manage are your own and you already know they’re gonna get blown out of the water. I’ll handle all the nitty, gritty logistics and you guys get to live fully in the moment as your epic love story unfolds in real time. Buckle up, because this is the type of adventure they write songs about!

Postcards From The Road
Wild-Hearted Couples Like You
  • ”one of the best decisions we made”

    Working with Milo for our wedding was one of the best decisions we made — hands down. From start to finish, Milo was nothing short of phenomenal. Not only is he an incredibly talented photographer, but he’s also one of the kindest, most genuine people we’ve had the pleasure of meeting.

    Milo created a warm and welcoming environment from the second we met. It was easy to be vulnerable around him, and he was great at guiding my wife and I through more intimate shots.

    Milo is worth every single penny — and then some. We highly recommend!
    Emily & Sarah
    Oregon Elopement
  • ”We knew we were in such good hands”

    I seriously cannot recommend Milo enough. Our photos turned out more perfect than I had dreamed. Milo is such a talented photographer, and I loved their approach to taking photos as well as their editing style. I felt like the photos really captured the joy of the day. My wife and I are a queer couple and especially appreciated having someone who not only has experience working with queer couples, but actively centers queer joy in their photography. We knew we were in such good hands!
    Milo is so knowledgeable about photography and the wedding industry. They went above and beyond and were such a helpful resource for us. It also was simply so much fun working with Milo.
    Chelsea & Kelly
    Oregon Elopement
  • ”DREAM PHOTOGRAPHER”

    Milo is THE dream photographer. When I look through my wedding photos, I smile and I cry and I laugh the whole time because it’s like reliving that beautiful day all over again.

    Their documentary-style ensures they will not only capture the little moments that could have so easily slipped into obscurity, but they will do so with skill and care. They are courteous, professional, and an all-around joy to work with. Their vision is YOUR vision.

    If you’re looking for a photographer for your big gay wedding (or small gay wedding!), look no further. The proof is in the pictures.
    Grayson & Trevor
    Washington Elopement

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Can you already picture your love story in the great outdoors?

Me, too. Let’s Hit The Road.

Before You Hit The road

Answers to all your eloping Questions

What is eloping?

These days eloping looks a little different. And honestly, it’s never looked better.

How Do I actually Elope?

How do we make it legal? Do we still need an officiant? Where do we start?
Don’t worry, friend! I’ve got you covered. Let’s break it down step by step.

Where can I elope?

Whatever wild idea you’re cooking up—be it land or sky or sea—you can elope there! Let’s go over some examples!

How Much Does It cost To Elope?

Let’s dig into some real numbers, actual examples, and ideas for how to make the most of your budget—whatever it is!

Every Adventure Starts Somewhere

Please complete the form below so we can begin mapping yours!

I’m So Stoked You’re Here!

You are officially taking the first step toward an elopement that is uniquely, fearlessly yours and I couldn’t be more excited to help make it happen. If you’ve got a full vision of your big day, I want to know it. If you’ve got a handful of vibey images and vague sense of place, I want to develop those ideas together.

After I’ve become enthralled with your inquiry, you can expect me to get back to you within two business days—so keep an eye on your inbox! In the meantime, start dreaming up all the places we could go… because your greatest adventure is right around the corner.

Want to know how to plan your dream elopement?

Get your free Planning Guide & Checklist!

A simple guide on planning your dream elopement that is completely personal to you! With timeline examples and a packing checklist, this is a great resources for any stage of the planning process!

Inside you’ll find:

  • Location Planning Tips
  • Packing List
  • Timeline Guidence
  • Sample Timelines
  • Activity Ideas
  • Lodging Ideas

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